Is it Puppy Love? What To Say About Your Child’s First Crush?
Category: featured, raising children, yourchicfamily
By: Jody Johnston Pawel, LSW, CFLE
There is only one “First Love” in each of our lives. Do you remember yours? Even though it may be far in the past, most of us can still feel the excitement of that first crush. We can even feel butterflies in our stomach just thinking about that special puppy love. We usually smile when thinking about it, even though it ended, because it wasn’t “real” love. We file it away in our memory banks with the logical level-headedness only boring old adults can attain.
So when our children experience their first crush, we recognize it as puppy love, a passing crush that most likely will end. Some of us might worry about our children getting their hopes up only to be disappointed later. A few of us might actually take steps to say or do something to try to spare our children that disappointment. Rarely, but all too often, parents might say or do something that crushes the child far more than the eventual death of the crush.
Are You Married to a Mama’s Boy?
Category: featured, relationship advice, yourchicfamily
By: Jenna D. Barry
You probably fell in love with your husband because he was a loving, generous, thoughtful, responsible, honest person. Maybe you loved the kind way he treated his 5-year old niece, his yellow Labrador retriever, or his sweet little grandma. Whatever qualities attracted you to him, there’s a good chance that his mother is a big reason why he turned out so great. Moms are usually a wonderful influence in their sons’ lives. Guys who have a close relationship with their mothers usually make great husbands.
5 Easy Tips for a Slobproof Home
Category: Interior design, cost saving ideas, featured, raising children, yourchichome
By: Debbie Weiner
I should have known a mixed marriage wouldn’t work. With me, a professional designer and he, a self-professed slob, we were headed for trouble. Sure, it was bliss at first. I created rooms that were full of delicate fabrics and off-white finishes and he was careful not to damage my precious furnishings. Every pillow was primped, every curtain tassle-trimmed and we all took our shoes off at the door to keep the light beige carpet in pristine condition.
But real life caught up to us. I spent more time at work, and he spent more time at home. Then kids came – both boys, followed by various animals, including two dogs. Shoes, even baseball cleats, stopped coming off at the door. Nerf balls went flying through the family room. Food was found everywhere- on the sofa, ground into the carpet, even under my sheets. Then came dog poop on my dining room rug. I fell apart- yelling about the dirt, the mess, the ruined sofa, the fingerprint stained draperies and the beige carpet polka-dotted with spots, spills and stains.
Three Blessings that Forgiveness Brings
Category: featured, relationship advice, spirituality, yourchicself
By: Kashia Rachfall
February’s here, and it’s time to evaluate how your New Year’s Resolutions are going. How’s it going? Did you make New Year’s Resolutions for 2010?
This new decade is an opportunity to do in life what you’ve always wanted to do; to be who you’ve always dreamed you could be; to let go of the old habits and grudges and to open yourself to new ways of thinking and being.
Forgiveness can play an integral part in ushering in these new changes that you create for yourself. It will allow you to truly cut ties with any bonds from your past and focus on creating your future and living in the present.
